I’ve not done a “day in our life” post for quite some time. I thought some of you might enjoy reading about our day today, autism and all! I was awoken at 6:20am by Little S, thankfully she’s happy to come into bed for a cuddle and a cup of milk. Daddy left for work at 7:45, the children and I slowly rose and started our day.
I gave the children breakfast and made myself a cup of tea and a teacake. I heard the distant sound of water running so I went upstairs to turn it off. In the bathroom I found Little S covered in purple face paint. I ran her a bath and in she hopped. 2 seconds later she was covered in bright pink lipstick! I have no idea where she found it.
During this time E repeatedly comes in asking if I can watch him play a game. Yes, not play with him, just watch (gotta love Autism). Once Little S is out of the bath and dressed I go to spend some time with E. He is playing a game called Doodle God, where he has to mix different elements and objects to create new ones. It’s quite good and gets his brain thinking.
Next I try to do a bit of washing up and put a load of washing on. I get interrupted because the children want to use a cardboard box to make a slide on the stairs. Once it’s done we have a go, zooming down the stairs onto a pile of cushions.
R decides she wants to do some baking so she goes to the village shop to get some ingredients. Little S is playing small world with my little ponies upstairs and spills water everywhere. When R gets back she finds the recipe she wants to try and we bake some caramel slices together.
While the slices are cooling she sets upon a project she asked to do. She wants to learn how to prepare a whole fish and cook it for dinner. We had bought the fish yesterday after she chose the perfect one. First she learns to clean the fish, discovering that it’s a male fish. Next she beheads and bones the fish. She is very curious about the workings of the fish, taking time to examine the eyes and gills. Last she skins the fish, before poaching it and turning it into fish nuggets for dinner. S comes in to help make the fish nuggets too.
I prepare mine and daddy’s dinner and tidy the kitchen, then clean out the guinea pigs with help from S. The children eat their dinner, both E and R enjoy the fish nuggets but S isn’t so keen. Little is vegetarian so has Quorn nuggets instead. After dinner E gets upset and has a large meltdown. He turns his room upside-down, tossing the mattress off the bed. Neither he nor I seem to know what triggered it. Autism rarely makes sense.
Daddy gets home from work, but he doesn’t feel very well. Little S wets herself so needs cleaning up. All of a sudden the house plunges into darkness. We check the fuse boxes and see that they’ve tripped. Turning them on S exclaims that T.V. isn’t working. Little S pipes up “I put this (screwdriver) in back (of T.V.)!”
So now we have no T.V. as our 4 year old has blown it up.
I have my dinner then help E put his room back together. Poppy dog needs a walk, so torch in hand, we wander out into the darkness. When we get home it’s time to get everyone ready for bed. S complains of a tummy ache, then suddenly discovers why. Time for another clean up!
So now it’s 9pm and I’ve just sat down. I can’t remember the last time I had a cup of tea and I’m gasping. But no rest for me. E still needs settling which could take another 2 hours. I also need to tidy up before tomorrow, the children want to do some science experiements.